It's often much easier for me to forgive others than to forgive myself. Accepting the faults of others usually comes more naturally than accepting my own. Perhaps this is because I am always with myself, always reminded of the things I've done that I wish I hadn't. I see the things I hide, but I don't always see or acknowledge the good I do.
There was a time in my life when I waged a war against myself. The light and the shadow in my soul fought an epic battle, and I came out the loser.
More recently, I've begun to work towards self-acceptance. The good and bad inside me have declared a truce, come to an understanding.
There are benefits to having weaknesses. They enable me to see others with greater compassion.
There are benefits to being flawed. The process of striving for improvement helps me grow.
There are benefits to failure. If I hadn't failed, I never would have learned what is truly important in life.
I'm not everything I want to be, but now the energy that was once devoted to a constant inner war can be directed outward, helping me accomplish my goals and make a positive impact.
Self-acceptance isn't everything, but it's a good beginning.
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