There is something beautiful about an understanding moment, when two people with differing views are able to see as one.
Understanding is a byproduct of love--not just romantic love, but the kind of love that applies to all mankind. When we truly care about the people around us, we are more likely to want to understand them.
Sometimes understanding comes after conflict. While it would be better to find understanding without conflict, this method is better than finding no understanding at all.
When we label people, we put up walls that prevent us from understanding them. When we take things personally, our own hurt can prevent us from clearly seeing the intentions of others.
Knowing someone's story is often a beginning of love and regard. When we see only what's on the surface, we may make incorrect assumptions about a person's behavior. When we see people for who they are rather than simply what they can do for us, understanding is more likely to occur.
Everyone has felt the pain of not being understood. All it takes to prevent someone else from feeling that way is a willingness to listen without judging.
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