The Simplicity of Self-awareness

We cannot clearly see ourselves most of the time. An outside perspective is needed, but not just any outside perspective. It has to be from someone we trust who sees clearly.

The ability to look objectively at oneself is an essential component of personal growth. A willingness to listen to feedback is a desirable trait. When we are unapproachable, the people around us will cease to speak truths we need to hear. This can only lead to resentment and rebellion.

There are people who will criticize us no matter what we do. It has nothing to do with us and everything to do with them. Their angry voices are not the ones we want to use to gauge our strengths and weaknesses. All they can offer is noise. Even loved ones can sometimes fall into this category, so we must not only know who to listen to but also what frame of mind that person was in when they spoke to us.

When someone tells us the truth about ourselves, and when we are open and receptive to their words, we will feel the weight of that truth. It will open our eyes, settle into our souls, and it will change us. It may be a welcome truth or a harsh truth, but it will always be spoken with love -- even when those same words in another context or tone could come across as hurtful.

The best leaders are self-aware. Rather than blaming circumstances or other people, they look at their own failings and strive to improve.